"We will meet and talk with friends and speak of everything and nothing...We will laugh and reminisce, and no matter how light the conversation may all seem, we will remember that day fondly...forever."
{Anthropologie, "Script & Posy Dinner Plate," $18.}
Have you ever sat down with a group of friends for a dinner that was just perfect in every sense of the word? When I came across this plate today at Anthropologie, I was instantly taken back to such a night(s) this past summer.
I studied abroad in Valencia, Spain, for 6 weeks this summer (more about that later, when I'm having a "TAKE ME BACK TO SPAIN"-Mental breakdown-emotional roller coaster-kinda days), and literally had the greatest time. I made friends that I will have for the rest of my life and that I share memories with that are unlike any others.
We saw the world together. We ran around countries whose languages we didn't speak. We submersed ourselves in cultures we had never experienced. We went on pub crawls, played soccer in the park, saw pieces of history before our very eyes, bought 1 euro bottles of wine (nightly), and stayed up till the sun came out. The list could go on and on, but some of our favorite memories revolve around our dinners--two in particular that come to mind when looking at this plate:
On our second night in Valencia, we went out to dinner to celebrate a friend of mine's birthday. A few of us were already friends from back home, but we had new additions to our table. Over great food and about three bottles of wine, we spoke about everything you can imagine.
Love. Family. Religion. Food. Friends. Bad Experiences. Good Experiences. Everything.
You often hear that some of these things shouldn't be discussed among company, but on that night, everyone heard each other's opinions and feelings with an open heart and mind. It was the kind of conversations you only imagine a good dinner party will be made up of, but better.
The second dinner took place on our very last night in Valencia, six weeks later. It was the same group that was there on the night of our first dinner, but we were each very different people than we had been at the first dinner.
We ate great food. We drank great wine. We laughed. We cried. We gave each other superlatives. We (for some odd reason) predicted the kind of person each one of us would marry. We thanked each other. We talked about what our favorite part of the trip was. We talked about what we'd miss most. We planned the trips we would (and will) take in the future. We promised to stay friends.
I'm not only so very grateful for everything that happened in those six weeks, but also for what came as a result of it. I miss our nightly dinners, each so memorable in its own way. Nights like that are the kinds that you can't plan no matter how hard you try. They just happen, and you never forget them.
So happy that the little plate at Anthropologie today reminded me of such great memories!
Hope you've had memorable dinners with friends like these in the past, and that many more lie in your future!
My Popas!
XO
J